Yes, definitely, people can draw the same boundary for different reasons! Thanks for articulating that! :) When you think about it, really, any action can be done for a variety of reasons. For instance, if your partner takes an intimate picture of you because you’ve consented and they want to use that picture for purposes that you consent to, that’s great. But if your partner takes an intimate picture of you in order to intimidate or extort you, that’s 100% abusive (if not also criminal).

I’m glad the story made you think, and thanks for sharing your thoughts!