Yes. And it's so hard to know how to have that conversation with a guy. I've admittedly found it much easier to broach the subject when the victim/survivor is a woman. I wish I knew how to do the same with men, but honestly, for all the shame and denial that women sometimes respond with, there's a whole other layer of shame and denial when it comes to male victims/survivors, thanks to their patriarchal conditioning. They strike me as so much more delicate. I wish it weren't so. :-/