Well, the rest of the paragraph contextualizes those sentences by explaining that the fatigue was born of many years of gender-inflected trauma. There's a difference between outright disdain and disrespect for a given sex vs. feeling depleted and (benignly) avoidantly anxious in the wake of legitimate trauma. In my case, therapy helped. For the red pill fellows — who, given their hostility, seem to have even BIGGER emotional problems — I'm sure therapy can help too. Here's to hoping they seek it. :)