Ugh, I want to laugh because that move sounds so silly, but I’m also sorry anybody would do such a thing to you.

Incidentally, a gay male friend once astutely pointed out that an abusive ex of mine criticized my conventionally “feminine” features (e.g., curvy ass, long hair, etc.) more than the more “neutral” aspects of my appearance. My friend’s hypothesis was that maybe the ex didn’t like women as much as he thought he did? If your ex was averse to breasts, perhaps women weren’t right for him after all…