…emed to be of the admiring and enjoying kind, rather than of the objectifying and entitled variety. In fact, I once had a guy tell me in a friendly but very respectful tone that he thought I had nice breasts and that the lingerie I had on showed them off nicely. I told him I appreciated his appreciation and then in an almost shy voice, he asked if it might be possible to touch them. “Sure, I said, go right ahead.” His brief touch was gentle and admiring.