This is a good question, Yogi. I will have to give only a partial answer, out of respect for his privacy. But in general, my "gift" to him seems to be, simply, love. He has called or written to me, multiple times, from thousands of miles away, to thank me for the fact that "you showed me unconditional love," and especially that I did this through an era that he considers one of his lowest. He even once went so far as to say that I was one of the "top" women who ever loved him. So I'd like to think I made a positive impact in his world, even if he isn't entirely capable of articulating the concrete impacts of that. There are also just generally some times when I'm reminiscing on him fondly, and he reaches out. So it's possible that my soul drops in and visits him too. That maybe he reaches out in response to the warmth my soul brings him.
He and I, as humans, have differing levels of engagement with the spirit world, so I think I'm more consciously alert to the ways in which our souls interact; he doesn't seem like someone who would notice this and be capable of telling me (at least at this point in time). So I don't know what mine does for his, exactly, on an energetic level. But I do know that my conscious awareness of our deeper connection, along with some hunches about things he might be carrying from another life, have helped to inform the shapes of the kindnesses and affirmations that I've tried to extend — informed the "unconditional love" that I've given him.
In other words, having an instinctive sense of his wounds, I also have an instinctive sense of the antidotes. I enact this healing instinct in human form.
I think that people who are more attuned to spiritual reality are more capable of embodying the highest and the best of what souls can accomplish. You don't need to resort to bells and whistles and energetic drop-ins and magical synchronicities if you're out there expressing open-hearted, real-deal love in the first place. Love is, after all, the whole fabric, the whole reason, and the whole goal of our existence here. By contrast, perhaps the people who are less attuned to their soul selves do less of the open-hearted stuff, but their souls compensate for what their human selves can't do by dropping hits of magic instead.
Your question was a fun prompt for reflection. I hope this answer makes sense. :)
