Thanks for your comment, Scott. Sounds like you harbor a lot of unhealthy presumptions about men, women, and relationships at large. It's probably worth exploring with a counselor why you're cynical about each gender's ability to establish healthy and strong connections, since you assume that something as simple as wardrobe choices would jeopardize it. I also see a lot of surface-level (i.e., fashion-based) judgment in the opinions you've expressed. That's too bad; people are more than their clothes.

The good news is, whether you personally trust it or not, plenty of partners are indeed respectful and strong-of-character enough to be kind, loyal, and committed to partners who dress ANY kind of way, and plenty of women who dress "sexy" (yes, even outside the house) are respectful and strong-of-character enough to do the same. :)

I appreciate you taking the time to read and think about this stuff, and I wish you healthy connections!