Thank you for your comment, Legosensei. My previous article on Twin Flames was about precisely the unhealthy behaviors people attach to the label. I'm sorry you didn't stumble upon that sort of perspective sooner, but maybe you will feel validated in reading:

https://medium.com/the-casual-mystic/are-twin-flames-trauma-bonded-d98801e6efb2

I wish you healing and a love that does not hurt.