Thank you, Eleanor. This is something that bothers me about a lot of healing narratives today: there's this idea that everyone needs to look for what they "did wrong" and that they must own that in order to heal. But not everyone has been going through life doing wrong by others. Some people truly are so kind and considerate that their greatest "flaw" is that they let themselves be steamrolled, and these people often get left out of the healing conversation. I'm glad this resonated with you. 💜