Some real gems on this list. Thank you.
Coming from the New Age side of things, I will add to the religion point:
constantly shutting someone down or minimizing their concerns as "negative thinking."
"You're being negative" is the nondenominational "sin" that people with emotionally/psychologically abusive tendencies might rely on to invalidate their victims. Because telling somebody they're "being too negative" is a handy way to:
- silence them
- belittle their ideas
- disallow their narrative
- minimize their (justified) emotions
- shame them for their perspectives
- sidestep accountability for their grievances
- stonewall / - evade certain topics of conversation
- position oneself as the "superior," more "evolved" party
- challenge their right to talk about the things that bother them