Rest assured, Gary, while I can't figure out what "mythical situation" you're referring/reacting to, I have no interest in attacking you.

Nor in being attacked (which lamentably it now seems pertinent to specify, given that you've just escalated to labeling my thoughts as "arrogant").

As for the "it takes two to tango" truism, I'd unfortunately have to say (as someone with more than a passing knowledge of psychology) that while it's sometimes true, it's also very often false at best... and enabling at worst... but that's a whole other conversation.

Wishing you well also.