Penguin, thanks, you articulated this quite well. Duck somehow assumed I was calling them a misogynist, and I wasn't; I hadn't presumed to know their stance. I was just refuting the idea that feminism necessarily entails matriarchy — which is, as you put it, a very fringe kind of stance, yet also a popular straw man that a lot of anti-feminists put forth when they want to defend their ability to continue the systems and norms that oppress women and suppress female autonomy.

I'll refer Duck to your response and hope that it illuminates some perspectives for them.. :)