It's beautiful that you're so open-minded about the future of your connections; some people let their challenges make them bitter, but it's great that you don't. I like to imagine that the world is growing more aware of neurodivergence and that, because of this, you're likely to be met with more understanding and patience than in the past. In the end, yes, some women will want someone they don't have to "teach," but some will be happy that you genuinely care to learn.

And for what it's worth, the most rewarding relationship of my life thus far was with a neurodivergent guy — and it got easier as soon as I had my "Oh, gosh, I think he's on the spectrum!" lightbulb-moment. It provided a framework for figuring out how to communicate and also for understanding his behaviors and motivations from a more forgiving angle. My point being: yes, it takes patience, but there very well might be people out there in the world who will enjoy their connection with you enough to want to do that kind of work together.

I hope the future surprises you in a good way. :)