I'm sorry to hear that your relationship with this man turned out in a way that led to wounded feelings. If you've already had an open, honest conversation about the situation such that both sides have had a chance to express their feelings about the change in your dynamic, then you really don't owe him anything further; it's up to him to respect your boundaries (just as it would be up to you to respect his if the roles were reversed). Thank you for reading, and I'm glad the story gave you some insights that feel empowering!