I have loved many red flags! So, yes, I definitely see their value as human beings. ;) (Also, to be fair, most of the guys whose stories inspired this listicle were college-aged in a college town, so.... young. Not bad people, just immature at that time.)

My philosophy is, bad habits can be unlearned. When I write things like this, it's because I genuinely want to help people with good intentions to unlearn the things that stand in their way of connection. Thank you for recognizing this. 💜