Hi Donna, are you writing under a pseudonym as this author in the link below? I recognized the phrasing in your article (sometimes verbatim) from another great article I happened to read in The Guardian a couple days ago. If so, great work! The description of the guys at the bar is funny!

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/nov/05/pickup-artists-teaching-men-approach-women-industry-street-harassment