Ashi, with all respect, I gather that you have good intentions, but telling the author to focus on developing her personality and mindset sounds a little insensitive, as if you're implying that she hasn't already adequately developed these qualities. She's not vain, shallow, or suffering from misplaced priorities in life if she's upset about losing her hair. Hair is a body part. Hair loss is distressing. Hair loss in women is especially distressing. Especially when a major medical issue is causing the problem, and when society expects women to have full heads of healthy hair. I'm sure her personality is just fine. 💜