Luckily good sex is far more about personality than technique! — As someone who writes a lot about relationships, I occasionally aim to shed light on how women decide which men to keep and which ones to reject. Usually, these articles focus wholly on personality traits, and for good reason: personality is paramount. But you know what most “How Not to…

Here’s what people mean when they describe this love in almost-religious terms — People talk about twin flame love like it’s the holy grail of heart-and-soul connections. I don’t really view it that way. Love itself is the essence of the divine. All relationships play a sacred role in the journey of our souls. …

It sounds rash and extreme, but I’ll never regret going to transatlantic lengths to be with my pet in her dying days. — In June, my mom called with news: “We haven’t wanted to worry you, so we didn’t say anything at first… but your cat’s been limping since the other day. We think she’s fine. She probably just snagged one of her claws while jumping and twisted her knee. …

And is the runner/chaser dynamic inevitable? — Most people don’t know this about me, but a decade ago, I became a twin flame blogger by accident. Those years of contemplating and answering readers’ questions about divine love were some of the most meaningful and enriching of my life. …

Once upon a time, you screwed up. Want another chance? Here’s how to fix things. — Some people believe in letting bygones be bygones. But if you believe humans are dynamic beings who grow and change, it makes sense that a connection that didn’t work in the past might succeed in the future. I know real-life couples with just that story, including an aunt and uncle…

Why it can be hard for men to recognize this, how to spot the signs, and what to do — If there’s any “silver lining” to the court case playing out right now between Amber Heard and Johnny Depp, it’s that they’re sparking much-needed cultural conversations about the fact that, yes, men can be abused, and women can be abusive. I’m not here to weigh in on the celebrity couple…

Sometimes, while we’re waiting for a sign, life’s waiting for us to decide. — Six years ago, I was stuck. Hard. For the previous two-and-a-half years, I’d tried out some international moves, never ultimately wrangling the job prospects, visas, income, or general fulfillment I’d been aiming for. …

The secret? It’s not actually about trusting love at all. — A couple weeks ago, a friend asked me a profound question about relationships. He’d been enamored for years of a guy who was stringing him along, playing mindgames, and just generally going out of his way to make him feel worthless… only then to make threats whenever my heartbroken friend…

My muse is a guy I slept with once, and I still don’t know how I should feel about that. — Where do you start a non-linear story? How do you set the scene for the unseen? Does it begin when you’re 23, and the “ghost” starts coming to your room, filling the space with the warm spice of his cologne, and something in your gut tells you this is actually…